For Parents · Child & Adolescent Psychiatry
What to Expect During Your Child's First Psychiatric Evaluation
A step-by-step guide to help your family feel informed, prepared, and at ease before the appointment.
Dr. Farrah Laviolette, MD · Child & Adolescent Psychiatrist, Cranbrook Psychiatric Group
If you've scheduled your child's first psychiatric evaluation, you've already done something brave. Reaching out for help is never easy — and for many parents, it comes after months of worrying, researching, and wondering whether what they're seeing at home is "serious enough" to warrant professional support. It always is.
I want to use this post to walk you through exactly what happens during a first psychiatric evaluation at Cranbrook Psychiatric Group — what we're looking for, how we involve both you and your child, and what comes next. My goal is that by the time you arrive, the only thing you need to focus on is your child.
1 in 5
Children in the United States will experience a diagnosable mental health condition by age 18 — yet less than half of those children will ever receive professional evaluation or treatment. Early identification significantly improves long-term outcomes.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2023). Children's Mental Health Report. CDC.gov.
First: You Are Not Labeling Your Child
One of the most common fears I hear from parents before a first evaluation is this: "I don't want to label my child." I understand that fear deeply. But here's what I want you to know — a psychiatric evaluation is not about attaching a label. It is about understanding your child more fully so we can give them exactly the support they need.
Think of it the way you'd think about any other medical evaluation. If your child had persistent headaches, you'd see a neurologist. You wouldn't worry that the visit would define your child as "a headache person." The same logic applies here. We are gathering information. We are building a picture. And everything we learn is in service of your child's wellbeing.
"A psychiatric evaluation is not about finding what's wrong with your child. It's about understanding who they are — so we can help them thrive."
Before You Arrive: What to Prepare
The more information you can bring to the first appointment, the more productive it will be. You don't need to have everything perfectly organized — but gathering a few key things in advance will help us make the most of our time together.
Helpful to Bring or Have Ready
- A brief written timeline of when you first noticed your concerns and how they've changed
- Any previous evaluations, school records, IEP or 504 plans, or report cards
- A current list of all medications and supplements your child takes, including dosages
- Medical history: significant illnesses, hospitalizations, developmental milestones, birth history
- Family mental health history — on both sides — as many conditions have a genetic component
- Notes from teachers, therapists, or other providers who have observed your child's behavior
- Any specific questions or concerns you want to make sure we address
If your child is old enough, consider giving them a simple, honest explanation of the appointment before you come. Something like: "We're going to talk to a doctor who specializes in feelings and behavior. She wants to get to know you and help our family." Avoid framing it as a consequence or something to be nervous about.
What Happens During the Evaluation
A comprehensive first psychiatric evaluation typically takes 60 to 90 minutes. It is not a single test or a checklist — it is a clinical conversation, conducted across multiple perspectives. Here is how we generally structure the visit:
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Parent Interview
We begin by meeting with you — the parent or caregiver — either alone or with your child present, depending on age. I'll ask about your primary concerns, your child's developmental history, family dynamics, school performance, sleep, appetite, social relationships, and any significant life events. This part is crucial. You know your child better than anyone, and I want to hear your full picture without interruption.
Approx. 20–30 minutes
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Child or Adolescent Interview
I meet with your child individually — the length and depth of this varies by age. With younger children, this may be more observational and play-based. With adolescents, I spend significant time building rapport and hearing their perspective directly. Teens, in particular, often share things in this one-on-one space that they haven't been able to say at home, and that information is invaluable.
Approx. 20–30 minutes
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Standardized Screening Tools
Depending on your child's age and presenting concerns, I may use validated rating scales — tools like the Vanderbilt Assessment Scale for ADHD, the PHQ-A for adolescent depression, or the SCARED for anxiety. These aren't definitive diagnoses on their own, but they help quantify symptoms and track change over time in a reliable, evidence-based way.
Completed before or during visit
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Feedback & Collaborative Discussion
We close the appointment together — you, your child (if appropriate), and me. I share my initial clinical impressions, explain my thinking, and present a preliminary treatment plan. This is not a one-way download of information. I want your questions, your pushback, and your priorities. The plan we build should make sense to you and feel manageable.
Approx. 15–20 minutes
70%
Of children who receive early psychiatric intervention show meaningful improvement in functioning within 6 months, compared to those who receive no treatment. The earlier a condition is identified, the more responsive it typically is to treatment.
Merikangas, K.R. et al. (2011). Service utilization for lifetime mental disorders in U.S. adolescents. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 50(1), 32–45.
Will My Child Leave With a Diagnosis?
Not always — and that's okay. A single evaluation gives us an important starting point, but psychiatric diagnosis is a clinical process, not a single moment. In some cases, I will have a clear picture by the end of our first meeting. In others, I may need additional collateral information — teacher rating scales, outside records, or a follow-up session — before forming a diagnostic impression.
What I can promise is this: you will leave the first appointment with clarity about the next steps, an understanding of what I'm thinking and why, and a sense that your concerns have been heard and taken seriously.
If a Diagnosis Is Made
I will explain it in plain language — what it means, what it doesn't mean, and what the evidence says about treatment options. We will discuss both medication and non-medication approaches, and I will always explain the reasoning behind any recommendation I make.
If the Picture Is Unclear
We may schedule a follow-up session, request additional information from school or other providers, or refer for psychological testing if needed. Proceeding carefully and accurately is always more valuable than a rushed diagnosis.
Frequently Asked Questions From Parents
Should I tell my child we're going to a psychiatrist?
Yes — always. Children handle uncertainty harder than they handle honest information. Use age-appropriate language and frame it as a positive step. Avoid using the visit as a threat or consequence. Teens especially need to feel respected in this process, not blindsided.
What if my child refuses to talk during the session?
This is more common than you might think, particularly with adolescents. I am experienced in working with reluctant patients — we never force participation. Sometimes the most valuable observation I make is how a child behaves when they feel uncomfortable. Silence tells us something too.
Will my child be put on medication after the first visit?
Not necessarily. Medication is one tool among many, and it is never the only conversation we have. Many conditions respond well to therapy alone, particularly for younger children. When medication is recommended, I explain the evidence, the expected benefits, potential side effects, and what we will monitor. You will never feel pressured.
Is what my child says confidential?
In general, yes — especially for adolescents, confidentiality is an important part of building a therapeutic relationship. I explain limits of confidentiality clearly to both you and your child: if there is a safety concern, I am obligated to share that with you and, if necessary, appropriate authorities. Outside of safety issues, I protect your child's privacy.
How is a psychiatric evaluation different from therapy?
A psychiatric evaluation is a diagnostic and medical assessment — it is focused on understanding your child's presentation, identifying any underlying conditions, and developing a treatment plan, which may or may not include medication. Therapy is an ongoing, relationship-based treatment process. Many children benefit from both, and I will help you understand how they work together.
What to Tell Yourself Before You Come In
Reminders for Parents
- Seeking help is a sign of attentive, caring parenting — not failure
- You are not betraying your child by bringing them to this appointment
- There is no "too early" when it comes to mental health support — early intervention consistently produces better outcomes
- You are allowed to ask questions, push back, and take time to process any recommendations
- One evaluation does not lock you or your child into any particular path — it opens a conversation
- Your instincts as a parent matter; if something feels off, it's worth exploring
After the Evaluation: What Comes Next
Depending on what we find, next steps may include ongoing psychiatric follow-up appointments, a referral to a therapist or psychologist, coordination with your child's school, medication management, or a combination of these. I will always give you a clear summary of my recommendations in writing so you have something to refer back to.
Treatment of childhood psychiatric conditions is rarely a straight line — there will be adjustments, follow-up questions, and moments where the plan evolves. What matters is that you have a trusted clinical partner walking alongside you. That is what we are here to be.
57%
Of parents report that not knowing what to expect was the primary barrier to bringing their child in for a mental health evaluation. Information and preparation meaningfully reduce this barrier and improve follow-through on initial appointments.
Gulliver, A., Griffiths, K.M., & Christensen, H. (2010). Perceived barriers and facilitators to mental health help-seeking in young people. BMC Psychiatry, 10(1), 113.
This post is intended for educational purposes and does not constitute clinical advice. Every child is different, and evaluation processes may vary based on age, presenting concerns, and individual clinical need.
At Cranbrook Psychiatric Group, we offer comprehensive psychiatric evaluations for children and adolescents in a warm, family-centered environment in Troy, Michigan. If you have questions about scheduling or what to expect, please don't hesitate to reach out to our office directly. We are here to help.
